How I engage with children labelled as ADD, ADHD, Shy, Introvert

“My son is ADHD” said a mother of an eight-year old cute boy. “Oh that’s a new name, ADHD….interesting” I replied. “No…That’s not his name….I mean he has attention issues.” she clarified. “Ok, what makes you say that?? Is there any particular way he behaves that makes you derive that conclusion?” I asked “Yes…he doesn’t…